BPD in Children?

    BPD in Children?

    I am often asked about the BPD diagnosis in children. By definition, it does not occur since the BPD is defined as developing since early adulthood. Since the problem appears to be primarily in the brain’s limbic system, and since the limbic system goes into hyperdrive at puberty, it makes logical sense that the BPD would begin at puberty. While some authors have made their own diagnoses of BPD in children, the literature has not shown consistent findings in this regard – and a study in the 1980’s showed that children diagnosed as having BPD in childhood did not have the diagnosis in adulthood.

    Many children show symptoms similar to the BPD: inappropriate moodiness, self-destruction, impulsiveness, impulsive aggressiveness, jumping to the wrong conclusions, chronic anger, lack of temper control, irritability, and rejection sensitivity. I’ve treated many, many children for similar problems, and successful treatment has never included diagnosing the BPD in pre-pubertal children. Attention deficit disorder, depression – especially with psychotic features, what I call “fractured enjoyment” (which is really the formerly diagnosed “depressed personality”), the generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, bipolar disorder, and the obsessive compulsive disorders. Bipolar in children is most likely to be confused as “childhood BPD.”

    Since most of these diagnoses are genetic, I will often have both biological parents do the screening test for themselves and prioritize treating the diagnoses that all three seem to have. This has been a remarkably effective technique, particularly for smaller children.

 

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Can Someone Get BPD at Age 40?

    Can Someone “Get” BPD at Age 40?

    QUESTION:

    Dear Dr. Heller,

    My friend has every sign you listed, except abandonment issues. One that I’m not sure about is binge spending, but not on himself, on family, friends, strangers. But he is 41. Also, he got violent when someone he had given HUGE amounts of money and help to, tried to take his car by saying he stole it. (long story).

    He suffered childhood abuse, a sibling committed suicide. Maybe something of an abandonment issue – he’s in prison and seems more interested in what he did to his dogs, although feels horrible and suicidal over people he hurt too, but mainly the dogs. Can someone “get” BPD at age 40? He showed all other signs before – Doesn’t “cut” himself but hurts himself other ways – alcohol mainly (not an alcoholic – didn’t have DT’s when he stopped drinking) Where can I find a doctor like you in CT?

     

    ANSWER:

    Unless a head injury triggered it, one doesn’t “get” the BPD at age 40. By definition, it’s a “pervasive pattern…beginning in early adulthood.”

    It can significantly worsen due to stress as an individual ages. Self-mutilating young women have had the most attention and research, but the BPD affects multiple individuals in many different areas.

    Incidentally, not getting the DT’s doesn’t mean an individual isn’t an alcoholic.

    Dr. McGlashan at Yale was a pioneer in BPD treatment, and believes in the biological underpinnings. I don’t know whether he is still working with borderlines or not.

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Do All Transsexuals Have BPD?

    Do All Transsexuals Have BPD?

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    Dear Dr. Heller! While searching the web for some information about BPD and transsexualism I found “BiologicalUnhappiness.com”.  First of all I want to pay a compliment: great site with lot of information! Getting down to business, here’s my question: I am 26 and was diagnosed with BPD five years ago.  It’s not that I have doubts about that.  Lots of difficulties I had in every-day-life resulting from BPD I am able to deal different with today, but after six years of permanent therapies in hospitals as well as in ambulant treatments I still feel very uncomfortable with my sex and gender.  I never wanted to be a girl or be treated as one. Once I told a psychiatrist about my problem he said something like, “No, no, you are a borderliner and not a transsexual.  You must have been abused and that’s the reason for your problem, which isn’t really a problem After that I never said a word to anybody else… Do you think that BPD and transsexualism can occur in parallel? Neither my parents nor I can remember of any sexual abuse during my childhood.  Let us assume something has happened, could it in fact be the reason for my feelings?  And if so, what should I do now? It would give me great pleasure if you answered me! And sorry about my bad English, I am German 😮 Kind regards

    ANSWER:

    I’ve treated a few transsexuals who didn’t have the BPD, but most do have the BPD that I’ve encountered.  There is no reason one can’t have both diagnoses. Most transsexuals remember feeling trapped in the wrong sex body all their lives – which can be very traumatic and that trauma can trigger the BPD. Studies have shown that Tegretol can stop the desire for a transsexual existence.  I suspect these individuals just have the BPD with chronic dysphoria (anxiety, rage, depression and despair) and identity problems, and have found changing sexual identity improves their dysphoria. 

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Can BPD be diagnosed in adolescence?

    Can BPD be diagnosed in adolescence?

    QUESTION:

    Dear Dr. Heller,

    Hello.

    The instant I had a teacher describe BPD in a course I was taking in college, I knew that my niece could be the “poster girl” for it.  However, when I mentioned it to her sister, who then asked my niece’s doctor, the doctor said that they do not diagnose it until adulthood.  I think she is classic BPD and has been refused treatment at one hospital after a residential stay there for eating disorders.  My question is, why does she need to wait until adulthood to be diagnosed and treated for this specific disorder? 

    Thank you.

    ANSWER:

    The definition of young adulthood is the question here.  Puberty marks the transition from childhood to adulthood in many societies in the world.  In the US we arbitrarily define adulthood as age 18.

    Clearly the BPD begins at adolescence, when the brain’s limbic system goes into hyperdrive.  Because with rare exception the diagnosis requires a longstanding pattern early or mid adolescence is a difficult time to make the diagnosis.  Self-mutilation, multiple depression admissions, self-destructive behavior and moodiness can sometimes make the diagnosis clear in adolescence.

    Waiting until “full adulthood” for treatment can be fatal in the event of suicide, and can establish a lifetime pattern of thoughts and behaviors that will be difficult to overcome later on.  I’m a strong believer in early treatment.

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Why The Word “Borderline”?

    Why The Word “Borderline”?

    QUESTION:

    Dear Dr. Heller,

    All this time I thought I was just angry about my messed-up childhood – had fear of abandonment because of my distant father – had guilt because of the people I had hurt – shyness and low self-esteem because of my parents and peers, who were very critical and teased me – and depressed because of my past and/or chemical imbalance.

    I came upon this BPD site and many of the characteristics of BPD people are similar to mine…Does that mean I have BPD?  Why the word ‘borderline’?  Does it mean BPD’s are not full-fledged mentally ill?

    Thanks!

     

    ANSWER:

    What you described may or may not mean the BPD is present.  The official criteria will help you to determine if it fits you.  The name borderline came from the observation that individuals with the BPD can become psychotic too easily (psychotic means misinterpreting reality).  The most common form of psychosis is paranoia – misinterpreting motives as potentially hurtful.  Because of this, borderlines are said to live “at the border” between psychosis and reality.  The BPD is clearly a “mentally ill” diagnosis.  Those with the BPD can live incredibly productive, happy lives with the right combination of medications and brain retraining.

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Does My Daughter Have Epilepsy?

    Does My Daughter Have Epilepsy?

    QUESTION:

    Dear Dr. Heller,

    I am so pleased to find your sight.  My daughter has had emotional problems since the onset of puberty.  She is unable to function in school and does not develop close friendships.  She also suffers depression and rages.  Her physician believes she is bipolar and also has borderline personality disorder.  As a young child she was also diagnosed ADHD.  Amelia is very bright, was walking at 8 months, spoke in sentences from the getgo and has been a very nurtured and loved child.  I feel she has a neurological problem associated with epilepsy and would like to look into this further.  My youngest sister is epileptic and has suffered grand mal and petit mal seizures all of her life.  Do you think I am going in the right direction?

    Thank you.

     

    ANSWER:

    The most likely diagnosis is childhood onset bipolar disorder, and there is no reason she can’t also have ADHD.  The book “The Bipolar Child” by Dr. Papolos can give you enormously important information.  I’m highly suspicious bipolar is a form of epilepsy – nerve cells firing inappropriately and out of control.  I have a questionnaire I use for my child patients.

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